The dating app that knows who you are before it shows you anyone

Under Our Wing is a dating platform built on one foundational belief: compatibility should be established before attraction enters the picture.

Every major dating platform on the market organizes itself around photos first. The data on how well this works is not flattering. Match rates are high. Relationship rates are not.

We built an alternative. Ten questions, driven by AI trained on clinical psychology research into what actually predicts relationship success. Your answers build a compatibility profile across six dimensions: attachment style, emotional availability, conflict resolution, values alignment, communication, and self-awareness.

Matches are made on those dimensions. Photos enter only after compatibility is established. Seven curated matches per day — not an infinite swipe queue designed to keep you engaged.

The goal is not engagement. The goal is results.

Contact

Questions, feedback, or support: under-our-wing@polsia.app

What we collect

We collect your email address and password to create your account. During the screening process, we collect your responses to build your compatibility profile. We collect minimal technical data (IP address, device type) for security and service integrity.

What we do with your screening answers

Your screening conversation is used to generate your compatibility profile scores. Once your profile is built, your raw screening responses are permanently deleted. We do not store the text of your answers beyond the processing window.

What we do not do

• We do not sell your data to third parties.
• We do not use your data for advertising targeting.
• We do not share your compatibility profile with other users beyond what you explicitly choose to share.
• We do not retain data longer than necessary.

Data storage

Account data is stored on secured servers. Passwords are hashed and never stored in plain text. All connections are encrypted via HTTPS.

Your rights

You may request deletion of your account and all associated data at any time by contacting us at under-our-wing@polsia.app. We will process deletion requests within 30 days.

Changes

If we make material changes to this policy, we will notify you by email. Continued use of the service after notification constitutes acceptance of the updated policy.

Contact

under-our-wing@polsia.app

Acceptance

By creating an account on Under Our Wing, you agree to these Terms of Service. If you do not agree, do not use the service.

Eligibility

You must be at least 18 years old to use Under Our Wing. By creating an account, you confirm that you meet this requirement.

Your account

You are responsible for maintaining the security of your account credentials. You must not share your account or allow others to access it. You are responsible for all activity that occurs under your account.

Acceptable use

You agree not to:

• Provide false information during screening or in your profile.
• Harass, threaten, or harm other users.
• Attempt to circumvent the screening process or manipulate your compatibility scores.
• Use automated tools to interact with the service.
• Use the service for any commercial purpose without written permission.

Content

You retain ownership of any content you submit. By submitting content, you grant Under Our Wing a limited license to display and process it for the purpose of operating the service.

Termination

We reserve the right to suspend or terminate accounts that violate these terms, at our discretion. You may delete your account at any time.

Disclaimers

Under Our Wing is provided "as is." We make no guarantees about the accuracy of compatibility assessments or the outcomes of matches. Relationship success depends on factors beyond our control.

Limitation of liability

To the fullest extent permitted by law, Under Our Wing is not liable for indirect, incidental, or consequential damages arising from your use of the service.

Changes

We may update these terms. We will notify you of material changes by email. Continued use after notification constitutes acceptance.

Contact

under-our-wing@polsia.app